Whether finding real love in life is as difficult as passing an IAS exam?

I liked a post written a few days back in which it was questioned whether love is equivalent to an IAS exam. You keep on trying like appearing in that exam every year. That single line is of great significance. I try to explain how. There are people who might have cracked IAS exam in their first attempt, however such people are a minuscule percentage of the number of aspirants that go for it every year. The pain that the strugglers have can't be felt by this small number of successful candidates. IAS exam is just a comparative tool, there may be many such comparative analysis that we may make for this sake. Anything that comes to a person without much effort or because of his or her virtues as a reward in quick time, its value is underestimated. But in order to achieve the same thing if one has to toil hard, it's value multiplies far more in his or her sight. Now in this struggle, there are people who make effort for years and then they pass. There are others who even after years of struggle and hard work fail to pass and have to leave that dream of becoming an IAS Officer. My friends, when it comes to love, those who have failed in this several times, do they have a right to try their destiny again or not? Moot question is why someone runs after getting love in his or her life? The answer to this is, nothing completes him or her if there is no love in their lives. (Please don't mistaken this love as love between the brothers and sisters and mother and son, father and daughter and any such relations. ) Now if someone has been less competitive or less fortunate to get love in his or her life in his or her first few attempts, it does not mean that he or she shall stop looking for this elsewhere. It's the innate desire that their soul is looking for. Friends a failed IAS officer can become a good writer, research scholar or a professor that world knows him or her today. Similarly it's not necessary that who failed in love in their earlier years, can't be successful later. It's just a meeting of two souls who attract each other and that can happen at any point of time. If you have been fortunate to find your soulmate your loving buddy, don't hate others who could not or who are still looking for that. Don't make a fun of them since they are still trying. Just pray for them and wish for their fulfilling.

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