Saturday, December 29, 2012

Wrath and agony on the death of the delhi gang raped victim

Feeling ashamed to be born in a country where such inhumans (haiwans) are born... feeling deeply hurt on the death of a girl who was so young just 23 year old, a bright student, very energetic and happy girl before the cowards brutally gang raped her... this is a country where there is no meaning and value attached to a human life, its safety and freedom... No human rights are there for us... this country is full of evils everywhere... can you imagine a juvenile (below 18 years of age) is involved in this gang rape...? What has happened to the today's generation? Isn't it something they are getting so much pervert due to the easy accessibility of porn movies on cyber cafes, DVD parlors, and even today's hindi cinemas which show unabated strories full of sex as if that is the real India what is being portrated in those movies? I find no solution to this problem, the roots are deep, this generation is badly affected to this, feeling helpless and hopeless... no body knows what to do, whom to approach for guidence.. it's not just the technical or professional education that this generation requires.. there are so many other facets of our lives.... but for them we are totally in dark how to deal with different situations in life...  Need a big youth revolution without which the system will remain paralysed like this.

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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Sunday, October 7, 2012

On the occassion of birth day of two great leaders of our nation (2nd October).

India is a socialist democratic republic what we call it as per the constitution we adopted. But there is hardly any socialism left.. there is no real democracy and republic is a word, hardly a few hundred people would be knowing its meaning... Do people have any say in what the government is taking the decisions or remained idle for most of the part of their rule till a month back? Once the 545 parliamentarians are elected by us, do they come back to us and state the affairs to us what they promised and what they achieved? Do they come back to us and ask us what's good and what's bad and what better can be done for the betterment of the people in their constituency... Why there is this much of gap...? In the parliament they fight like anything... they don't behave properly.. most of the time parlaiment does not run.. but they take their salary and allowances in full... Why even the election commission is silent in providing at least a provision while going for casting our voting rights to reject all the candidates in the fray? If I don't like the candidates, I should have the way to express my opinion... Few people will say democracy means any one can become the prime minister or chief minister in India... It's good. But when people who are not deserving for the post of even a third grade post in any Government Office, they become prime minister (not talking about today's PM), what good they can do for the nation? Think about American presidential system, who ever become eligible for the post of the President, they have to prove themselves before their citizens, three or four times they come for public debate and prove their suitability for the highest post of their nation even before the election starts. They put their hearts out to prove their suitability through their intelligence, their demeanour, their wits, their zeal, their willingness to work for the people.. and then the public decides after taking note of all what they demonstrate to them... but in India, post of PM is nominated one, so any one can become PM or CM in states.. After that what happens we all know... Really I feel the system of democracy adopted by us is not suitable for a country as big as India. In the coming years, the anarchy would increase... the people need to think of change in this system... wishing a good future on the occassion of the birth day of two great leaders of our nation - Mahatma Gandhi ji and our late Prime minister Sri Lal Bahadur Shastri Ji...
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

Some excerpts from my facebook account

Some excerpts from my facebook account- www.facebook.com/manoj.sapiens
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It's a bit difficult to describe yourself but let me give it a try.. Well, basically I am a apolitical person having avid interests in writing on diversified subjects, reading, listening music, watching natural beauties and sharing my ideas and thoughts with the people from different places and ethnicity around the world. I like the fluid writing of young writers these days in common man's language. The art of writing of different writers may be of different styles but one thing that's most essential in your writing is that what ever you write should not just be read by the readers, in fact each expression should reach their hearts with quite an ease. I love mother nature and all what does have originality and so I find myself untouched by the materialistic mind set of today's world. My way of living is very simple and uncompounded. I feel to be close to God and trust Him too much. I draw my positive energy from Him.

I believe in soul and I feel true souls attract each other. I want to spread my love to each good soul on this earth. I believe death is not the end. It's a transformation from one life to another with some transition period in between. I dream of a better world with no hatred, no violence, no greed, no corruption, no deciet... I dream of a one world where everybody could move freely from one part to another- a world without any physical boundaries, a world where no distinction is done between a man and another man for his color, caste and religion. In fact I wish it were only one religion and one caste that is humanity. I dream of a world where people will once again try to come back to live a natural life close to mother nature, away from the extra aminities having no soul that only makes us pass our vital time without any real joy of the journey of life that we are actually meant for. My philosphy of life is enjoy life to its fullest in its natural way. Life is short and joy is short lived. Steal this joy from where ever you find. Well, I try to search my joy somewhere in the twinkling stars of the galaxy, somewhere in the mighty waves of the ocean, somewhere in the silent and freezing cold climate of a mountain, somewhere in the intermittent rains on a winter day, somewhere in the herds of birds flying in the sky, somewhere in an old women's blessings, somewhere in the smile of an innocent child, somewhere in the beautiful eyes of a princess, somewhere in a friend's gentle pat on my shoulder, somewhere in my mother's affectionate sight... the list is endless... enjoying my life in my own way! In short I am simple, close to mother nature, teetotaler, humble and very friendly. Smoking, drinking and any such kind of things including tobacco are strictly no for me. I also suggest my friends to leave smoking and drinking if they do because these are silent killers... it's better to live without tablets and capsules and frequent visits to physicians in our old days.

Finally I would like to appeal to all my friends-

"If you have a kind word to say, say it now...
If you have something to give, give it now...
If you can make someone glad or another less sad
Do it now… do it now… do it now..

If you have trust to bestow, show it now..
If you have friendship to give, give it now ..
If there is pain you can ease or someone you can please

Do it now… do it now… do it now!!!"

manoj.sapiens@gmail.com
 

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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

 

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Ye Kaisi Aazadi...?



Today we are celebrating the 65th birthday of Modern India.  We call it our independence day.  I should feel happy to be part of this auspicious day but I don’t know why the kind of enthusiasm I used to find in my heart at the time when I was a school or college going student, the same zeal is missing now.  Does it happen with most of us?  Young minds definitely happen to be different than the more saturated minds like ours now.  Younger minds are filled with innumerous hopes and dreams and with the time some of these hopes get translated in to the reality but many remain unfulfilled or simply remain distant dreams.  We always discuss in our conversations that Bapu had dreamt about our nation or similarly other great leaders of our nation did the same.  They really had dreams of a great future for our nation.  I don’t know if they could see and gauge how post-independence India progressed since then, but definitely had they been here they must have put their head down in shame for the way the nation has been lead to by us, the generations that came after them. 


 We had a subject called Moral Science in our syllabus in our school days, every day we had to read a lesson before our teacher standing before him and he used to make us understand the significance of those stories.  Those stories made us feel proud then.  They taught us to respect elders, to behave with others.  They brought discipline and character in us.  Today I don’t know whether this subject is part of the syllabus of our school going children or not, probably not because every now and then we come across instances of intolerance by the teenagers against their teachers, parents and their fellow students and friends.  Today’s children do not know what they are heading to.  They are very confused about their identity, whenever they turn to someone for the moral and emotional support, they find everybody busy in his or her own problems or own business.  Neither their books guide them nor the people surrounding them.  As a result we also come across the widespread depression among today’s teenagers.   The suicidal tendency due to this depression is now not uncommon among them. 


We need to find answers to these problems which we are not prepared to handle.  These need immediate attention and the changes need to come at the grass root level, in our education system.  But our political class, the brain behind all the plans and their implementation, what has happened to them?  Why are they so insensitive to such issues?  Why is this lack of leadership before us?  Why we don’t find anyone to whom we can turn and say that yes, he is our leader who will solve our problems, who will bring prosperity in our country? 


Today what we see in our parliament is the complete mockery of our democracy.  Leaders elected by us are behaving like we find two women fighting in our neighborhood on petty issues like throwing garbage in front of the other’s door.  Parliament does not look like a temple of constitution rather that look like a fish market, more of a shout and less of a business.  Most of the time parliament sessions are not allowed to run either by the ruling party or by the opposition.  And when the focus should be on the important issues which they need to address for our people and our nation, the focus of these elected parliamentarians happen to be on blaming each other for what they did in their previous or ongoing governance whether in center or states.  They don’t want to solve the today’s problem rather they just try to compare the state of the affairs from one governance to another; they remind the failure of others to justify their own governance.  As a result nothing moves from there.  Hundreds of public litigations are filed in the courts and now courts direct the government to take action on several issues.  Government has now become habituated to this, despite several admonishments by the courts on several occasions, government still seems in inaction.  General public bewilders what is happening at the center.  Is there any democracy left in the system?  Democracy means rule by the common people for the common people, but is there any rule now left in our country?  By looking at today’s style of functioning of the government, it seems like there is a complete void at the center.


A phase was that when I saw India progressing ahead in the field of Science & Technology, agriculture, Trade & Industry and many other fields.  But suddenly since almost a decade, we have started decelerating very fast.  Sometimes I wonder whether those statistics given to us by the government and their agencies were untrue or today we have become so developed that we can’t grow at the rate of 8 or 9 percent in terms of our GDP.  In fact we have started looking our negative growth in trade and industry.  Our GDP growth of below 6 percent is a reality now and is heading towards worse than this in the coming future as the economists are predicting.  They are talking about growth in the range of 3 to 4 percent if corrective actions are not taken by the government.  The extent of inaction for last many years are so intense that the foreign magazines and newspapers are also echoing with the sentiments of the general public of India apart from the government and industry bodies who have trade and diplomatic relations with us.


 After 65 years we are still dependent on rain gods to bless us for our agriculture and as this year was not so good, so our agriculture is also going to show a negative yield.  We had so many 5-Year plans, one after other.  Every year worth several thousand crores of rupees’ schemes are unveiled by the governments for the development of the nation and the people, but when we see the progress made at the end of the year, we find nothing.  Poor is still poor, farmers are still looking for rains for their farming.  Irrigation facilities are still not available to most of the farmers.  Most of the villages and small towns are still eluded with the electricity.   We must have made some progress in education or health but it’s also true that the speed is extremely slow.  We don’t have sufficient number of schools, college or health centers to cater to each and every village and small towns.  On the top of it is the widespread corruption which has taken the roots of these institutions that even those government- run schools, colleges or health centers do not have the adequate facilities for what they are meant for.  Teachers, professors and doctors often remain missing from the duties, but they get their salary is credited to their accounts regularly at the end of each month. 


On one hand our constitution provides us so many fundamental rights, on the other hand in reality we can hardly exercise them as our nation is not yet prepared to provide us those rights.  For those rights you need to fight, go to courts, go to human rights commission and till you get the justice for yourself, it will take years and that too if you are prepared to face the pain and sufferings of our slow moving or rather I should say crawling judicial process which have lead the brokers of this system to exploit us like anything.


I have discussed very simple things that we suffer in our lives in our independent India, modern India.  Many more things, many issues are left or willingly I have left otherwise this will become a whole book. As a common citizen of India, I thought to express my feelings to you which I sense most of you will have more or less something in common.  It’s actually partly failure of the system and partly lack of our willingness to do something, to bring some change, be it the change in the way we think about us, about our neighborhood, our politics, our duties.  We don’t just have to think and forget.  We need to do what we think is better not just for ourselves but for others too, most important for our nation.  We need to inculcate discipline and moral in our young generations.  And for this first we need to give time to them.  We need to communicate.  Wherever we can’t make the changes, we need to strengthen those forces which can bring those changes.  Differences of opinions may be there because all human beings are different, so will be groups.  But for the sake of humanity and for the sake of our nation, we need to forget our differences and need to support the hands of those whom you think are better poised to lead our nation.  We need to forget the differences in the name of caste and religion, language and region.  We need to show that whole India is one and united.  We lack patriotism and this is a reality.  I may look rude to many of you but this is true.  We can’t escape from this.  We have some duties towards our nation and we have to recognize them and we should be willing to fulfill all our duties selflessly.  Only then we can ask our next generations to be patriot.


At the end my sincere appeal to all the readers of my article that it’s not to hurt anybody’s sentiments.  It’s my own realizations that I have shared with you and if anyone finds it offending, I apologize to them.


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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Punarvivah - It's time to change our age old thoughts against divorce and remarriage


Author- Manoj Kumar Abhimanyu

A very emotional and sensitive topic that I wish to raise on this forum. Yes now the days are over when we used to say that Marriages are made in heaven. The way we have progressed in the twenty first century, our life style has got a sea change. Our thought process, our individuality, our self esteem, our ego everything has got a big boost.  However now people are not as tolerant, as submissive and as accommodating as they used to be about a decade ago.  In fact they are now more aggressive, assertive and outspoken.  Unlike their parents or senior members of the society, if something hurts to other due to their actions, they hardly care for it.  Most of the people in young generation are now self centered or are part of disassociated closed group of persons. Let the world go to hell, my life is going well only that matters, nothing else - that's the simple philosophy of life today for the new generation.  
It's actually a duel between this younger generation and the older one, the former wants to break the set rules of society and come out of the age old traditions where there is no scope of any liberty, any breather or any space for self in a relationship.  Whatever the rule book said, that used to be blindly followed irrespective of whether that made a sense or not, was the old philosophy. Yes the rule book that has been prepared under the age old traditions which may be wrong or right but that needed to be followed.  
One of the facets of this duel results in failed marriages for the younger generation people.  Many of those having modern thoughts are tied their knots with someone who are complete opposite to them.  Both of them happen to be strangers before the marriage and in many cases remain strangers even after months and years of marriage.  They don't understand each other. They don't like each other.  Their presence in each others' life hurts them a lot as if they are unwanted guests who have occupied their time and space forcefully.  They may often be found to murmur or curse each other in front or at their backs. Each day becomes a kind of boxing ring where punches come from the words of mouth.  That really pains a lot to both. Can you think of such a situation where you are told to live twenty four hours with someone to whom you hate the most?  But this is one of the unfortunate truths of the new generation reeling  under such a  seemingly unending deadlock.  
In such situations, the people whoever come to know about that, will either give some words of sympathy to the couple (in no sense they happen to be couple but for society they will always be treated that way) or would say that they are not able to keep their marriage intact because the boy is wrong or the girl is wrong as per their own wisdom, judgement, choice, tilt and biased approach. But still they would tell them to live together even if there is no solution for the so called couple to live peacefully together. If one or both of them go to the court for the solution, courts would not give them divorce if the distressed couple do not come for mutual one. 
In contested divorce, it will take years for the parties in disputes to get divorce.  Date after date, you need to make hundreds of rounds of the court and by the time the verdict comes, the boy and the girl no longer remain of the age when they can start their lives once again by remarrying.  And in the course two lives get spoiled for ever due to factors like self-ego, revenge, instigation by the families, pressure of society and ultimately highly inordinate delay by the courts to leave them to suffer and reel under the crisis for ever.  
Well I got the idea to write on this topic watching a few episodes of a TV serial named 'Punarvivaah' coming on  Zee TV. Such serials will inspire such distressed couples and their families to let them start their new lives by coming out of such deadlocks and start a fresh, following the approach of forgive and forget.  Marrying again is not a sin. If your previous marriage was not successful, it's not because the boy or the girl were bad.  It may be because they did not match at all.  They were not compatible.  They did not like each others' taste and preferences.  Their frequency level did not match. They were not comfortable in each others' company.   Second marriage for the same girl or a boy may be blissful if the compatibility is good.  Come on our elders, our more experienced and senior members of our society, please I beg of you, understand this reality for God's sake.   Allow your sons and daughters to come out of such bitter relationships peacefully and in time. Allow them to get married once again as per their own choice and compatibility.  
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Saturday, February 11, 2012

A message to my friends on Valentine's day


Author - Manoj Kumar
Three days left for Valentine's day... many people think it's something we should not observe being it a copy of what the people in western countries do.. But do we really think Valentine's day is a symbol of love, a sacred day on which we can express our love to anyone? love can not just be defined to be between a boy and a girl, or a man or a woman... what we perceive in our terms boy friend-girl friend... haha... recently one of my friends to whom I have known just a few days back told that she and her brother observe this day by expressing their love for their parents by moving around them making a full circle three times like the way once Ganpati ji did to his parents - Shankar and Parvati ji... How noble this thought is, isn't it, my dear friends? Love we all know, that is the genesis of all the beautiful things in the world... if there is no love around us, this world would be non living.. everything will be machanised without any smile or happiness..... Love is really sacred... love the humanity... love the people around you... spread love everywhere you go... Observe this day with full enthusiasm... Don't feel lonely and neglected.... Love God if you feel no body is with you... Beyond doubt, God will also love you... But if your love is pure, love unconditionally... Unconditional love is the most precious thing in this world... the one who has got such love in his or her life is the happiest person on this earth... Love others unconditionally... spread this message to everyone you feel you should share...



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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Treasure your loved ones

Beautiful instrumental song -"Teri Meri Meri Teri Prem Kahani hai Mushkil..do labjo me ye bayaa na ho paaye!" - Played on Piano...

Love Special (Not written by me)- A Diary from a Guy (Read Only If U don’t Want To Cry)

 Part 1 *2nd January* 
Do you still remember the first time we met? It was the first day in school. I was entering the school gate in a hurry when I bumped into you as you stepped out of a luxurious Volvo. The books you were holding fell all over the ground. I picked up the books quickly and returned them to you along with sincere words of apology. However, you showed me an intimidating look. That gave me an impression that you were a willful girl born with a golden spoon. I rejected the possibility of being friends with you completely and hoped not to meet you again. Surprisingly, you turned out to be my classmate. 
*22nd March* 
I begin to know more about you as the days passed and my opinion of you changed for the better with each passing day. I realized that although you are from a wealthy family but you are definitely not a willful girl. You are nice and friendly. You were angry on the day we first met because I had left a footprint mark on the poetry collection you loved dearly. We met often during lunch breaks and I found something in you that were different from the rest of the girls - your passion for Chinese poetry. You would often mumble something to yourself. Initially, I thought that you were humming a pop song but later, I realized that you were reciting Chinese poems from great poets. You were so knowledgeable that you knew every poet and which poems they composed. I was very impressed indeed. 
*5th April*
 I met you again in the study area. You were reading the Chinese classic, "Romance of the Three Kingdoms". Your ability to appreciate Chinese classics left me with admiration. You were indeed unique in many ways. 
*5th May* 
Ever since that day, we would often meet in the study area to discuss about the merits and demerits of the various characters in the Chinese classics. Do you still remember the time when we almost severed our friendship because we could not agree on whether Jia BaoYu hurt Lin Dai Yu? Our argument was so fierce that we stopped talking for a week. But when Friday came, we met in the study area and laughed over the incident. After which we started another petty argument. 
*7th Aug* 
I could not deny it. It was a feeling I could not identify accurately. Whenever you laughed over a joke with other guys, that emotion filled my senses. It took me a while before I identified it. I was in love; the feeling was jealousy. I felt the need to express it. But I was afraid... That you would dismiss my feelings and we would be stuck in an embarrassing and awkward situation. I kept quiet as I was also afraid that our long nurtured friendship would crumble. 
*1st Oct* 
The news came as a shock to me. I was very worried when I learnt that you had fainted in the canteen. I struggled to keep my worried face in control as I looked at the ambulance that brought you to the hospital. 

Part 2 
*2nd Oct* 
It was drizzling today. Our form teacher announced sadly that you were sick with cancer. As she finished her last sentence, it seemed to me that the drizzle had turned into a downpour outside the classroom. I couldn’t hear anything but the sounds of the raindrops. I rushed immediately to the hospital’s intensive care unit to see you after classes. You looked extremely pale with no signs of any red on your face. I learnt that you had just undergone an operation. The life-support system beside you had tubes piercing mercilessly into your left wrist. "I am all right. It was just a serious case of anemia. Believe me, my parents told me that", you said convincingly. I knew fully well about what you were thinking. You did not want me to be worried. "Were you comforting yourself or comforting the fears and hopelessness that was written all over my face?” I was not strong enough to disagree with you and I nodded my head with a forced smile. You responded with a smile with great difficulty. 
*5th Oct*
 It was an ordinary day but to me, it was an important day. I felt an impulse to express my love. I walked over to the side of your bed and held your hand. I told you the story of how an ordinary guy fell in love with a girl who likes poetry and Chinese classics. As I told my story, my eyes were flooded with tears and my voice choked uncontrollably. I ended up breaking into tears. But you held my head against your body and said with teary eyes, "I understand such a love, so did the girl." I stopped myself from crying and looked at her. I saw her crying too and for the first time, I saw some redness on her lips. 
*26th Oct* 
It was the last day of the examinations and I rushed to the hospital to continue my story. When I arrived at the hospital, I saw the nurse tidying up the bed you once slept on. When I asked about you, the nurse told me that you had passed away. It was a bolt from the blue for me. I stood motionlessly for a long time. I hated myself for spending the last few days preparing for the last examination. I hated myself for not staying longer the last time I visited you. I hated myself so much... But you were gone... I couldn't remember how I got home. When I woke up, I was already in my room. The pillow that I slept on was wet. The following day, I went for the funeral. Your father told me that you were still reading the poetry collection I gave you as a gift for your birthday on your last day on earth. Standing in front of your portrait, I had no tears. They were used up on the day of your death. All I knew was sadness. My heart felt as if it was shattered into pieces and had died. 
*2nd Jan* 
A new girl has taken over your seat. She does not like poetry, but she likes to hum pop songs. When I asked her if she knows Jia Bao Yu, she replied, "What are you talking about?" Yes, you were gone. But to me, the seat is still unoccupied, and maybe no one will ever occupy it... This is a true story that happened 10 years ago!!!! Hopefully, now you will appreciate the meaning behind the phrase, "A person will know what pain is only when he has experienced it..." To cut the whole story short... If you truly love someone, simply go right up to him or her now to say "I love you" and express your feelings for that person before it's too late! A guy would rather shed blood than tears because he has yet to experience sadness. The moral of the story is to treasure your love ones because they might not always be around. Share this story to those you cherish the most and let them feel their "presence" is important to us as they are part of our lives!

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Amrit Vaani - Real essence of life


"No matter what the situation, strengthen the confidence that God is your very own, and all your work will get done."-Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Author - Manoj Kumar
My opinion - Very true... I have felt it recently and also several times before.  I always tell the people around and close to me that they should also believe in any situation, good or bad that God is always with us... and specially when you are in difficult situations, you will come out of that with his blessings as you would have the confidence in yourself and your confidence will never let you down.. So have belief in God.. God is yours... you are God's own child. Leave your dirty practices.. or at least try to minimise them to the extent you can do.  God likes them who respond to Him with his or her positive character, who loves and contributes towards humanity and who does not hurt others.  Feel good and let others also feel good with your efforts.. that's the real essence of life...!  
 
"Sarve Bhavantu Sukhinaah!" - Let everybody be happy and prosperous! 
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Anil Ambani: youth Icon of India

Author- Manoj Kumar
Friends, Mumbai Marathon is one of its unique kind as every year our youth icon, Anil Ambani runs and completes its Half Marathon Category. That's the spirit my dear friends we should always imbibe in ourselves... while people at those levels just sit in their couches and watch the news or remain busy in their business meetings, he takes out some time for this and gives inspiration to all the athletes participating and gives a strong message to the Indian youth that we should keep your fitness levels as high as him. We being quite younger than him hardly have that stamina to run 21 Kms. at a stretch... That's why I call him a youth Icon.
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Indian Cricket Team or Team India - BCCI it's time to decide?

Author - Manoj Kumar
Indian Cricket Team or Team India - BCCI it's time to decide?
Today no body would like to be compared with Dhoni, as a batsman, as a keeper or as a captain... I always heard from the people that he depends more on luck and not on technique... he is not technically good that world knew, now the luck is not on his side, his flopshow continues which led the Indian team's boat capsize in the middle of the Australian Sea.... Everytime we fail on the overseas soil, team management and experts say that they will examine the situation and will take the appropriate steps to improve the same... but after coming back to India, starts another series on Indian fields and there the same team performs and hence media and all experts the same ones who critisized the team for their failures in overseas matches, starts praising the team like they are the tigers and they can not be defeated, they have legends who are world beaters and no body is as great as they are and so on and so forth.  On the top of the cake, cherry is that IPL which happens every year and goes for almost two months that seems to be an affair which makes us forget the failures of the Indian team so fast as the speed of light.  The same Dhoni, Tendulkar, Luxman and Sehwaag become Gods of Cricket.  And then after another failure, the same players themselves complain, it's due to lots of cricket the players play, they are not able to cope up with the pressure... who tells you to play in all formats, tell me!  Who tells you to participate in IPL?  It's only your choice, you want to make money... for you pride is not their in winning for the team, you only want to win for yourself and for you winning means minting money playing in tournaments like IPL and exposing yourself to foreign bowlers regularly and give them the opportunity to make strategies against you and your team very easily.  Further, there is no planning in the management and the think tank of the BCCI.  Good players keep waiting for long to be selected in the team as the old monks (Sachin, Luxman, Dravid, Shewaag) are not ready to step out.. The Tendulkar who is waiting for his 100th Century for how long, I don't know when this wait will be over... should feel shame and if any grace is still left inside him, he should immediately get retired.. It's not necessary to get 100 centuries after combining the centuries in the two formats, it's never gonna be registered in the record books... the two formats are different.  Why getting so emotional for one hundred...  A small suggestion to the richest board in world cricket, BCCI, make planning to give chance to play the younger Indian teams to go aboard on tours and play as much as possible, not with teams like Pakistan, Bangladesh and Sri Lanka... Make bouncy tracks in India as well... and don't just make pitches for the sake of your spinners only... because spin is not an art limited to India, it's an art world over players have learnt and in fact they are performing far better than our bowlers... you can see the statstics... every team has got very good spin bowlers... and our own bowlers are not getting wickets... remove this contract system of paying the players without even playing a match or without performing when playing a match... No need to classify players in Group A, B and C rather make a system of payment on the basis of their performance in the last ten or twenty innings... and those who perform should be kept in the team and those who don't should be removed immediately how so ever talented or experienced the player be.  Make one strong policy to implement these things... players should not be allowed to play in all the formats... they should also be rotated so as to make them available at all times, their fitness level should also be given prime importance.  If you implement such a policy, if we don't become world beaters, at least we would not finish off the games losing like a lamb in just two and half days... You can see the consistency in the teams like England, Australia and South Africa, they are the teams who can lose on a day but these days are rare... so you should learn from their policies, their determination and their hardwork though their boards are no where closer to you in terms of the wealth... take lessons... hard I know it's not easy because people are in the habit of forgetting the loss soon in order to lose again and again and again...

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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Dance India Dance - Season 3 is rocking

Author - Manoj Kumar
Dance India Dance - Season 3 is rocking.... unbelievably wonderful performances - Indian standards coming closer to western... India, the country for which dance was known to be only of classical types and otherwise a taboo for the performers, has evolved immensely within last one decade and now we feel proud to have dancers whose rhythmic and gymnastic performance are at the highest levels... I salute such parents who have allowed and inspired their  children to learn and make dance as a career for them, as without their support we could not have got such fantastic performers.. Rhythmic dance is a form which purify both body, mind and soul of the performer and gives an unparalleled feelings to the onlookers, this feeling is so wonderful- just two minute of performance leaves what not- emotions, beauty, rhythm, grace, softness and gratitude.

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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Thursday, January 12, 2012

True love in all forms is always divine


Author - Unknown

Love is the finest of all emotions; it is also the most powerful. You can easily hide your thoughts; feelings, however, are more difficult to hide. When you look at a person’s eyes, you can make out his feelings. It is not the same with thoughts. If someone is scheming or conspiring, you won’t be able to make that out.

But love can neither be fully hidden nor expressed. The more you try to hide it, the more apparent it becomes. Love expresses itself in so many ways. You don’t have to tell anybody you love him: your walk, your talk, your look will all convey that love. Love oozes out of your very presence.

Magnetic Impact
One who has attained the fullness of love, his throat chokes, and joy manifests itself in all his actions. He is unable to speak properly because love cannot be expressed in words. Love has a magnetic impact on everybody around. If you have attained fullness of love, everyone will feel secure in your company, in your presence. Whoever comes close to you, will all feel at home, comfortable, like coming to a mother.

Cleansing Power
Your love has the power to purify everything around you. The tears of love purify families, traditions, towns and villages; they purify this earth. Even places where some lover spent his life longing for God become pilgrimage centres.

Sheer Joy 

One who is filled with love, who sheds tears of gratitude, his very presence is enjoyed by those who have crossed over. When your life is blossoming in love, it brings great comfort, great relief and joy.

The power of love transcends worlds. When you meditate, or engage in any spiritual practice, a portion of the merit goes to your ancestors. It is like clearing a debt, giving, or sharing good things that you have. In all religions, when someone departs, there is a memorial service.

You pray for the departed soul: your prayer, your love, touches the other world. So when you meditate, remember, you are not meditating just for yourself but for this world as well as the unseen world.

When a devotee who is full of love for God engages in any action, that action gains value and it becomes the best action. There are two kinds of people: those who are valued because of the things they possess, and those who add value to things. Prophet Mohammed wore a pair of simple shoes and that became valuable. M K Gandhi used just an ordinary staff, but it has acquired value because he used it.

Likewise, what one says is not as important as the stature of the person saying it. Even a scolding from a wise person is valued, while praise from a foolish person is of no relevance. Words and actions become valuable because of the one who speaks them or performs them.

Sacred Words
A scholar or a theologian can write a scripture. A philosopher, an intellectual, can write a book, but it remains at the most an intellectual exercise. On the contrary, just four lines from a Chaitanya Mahaprabhu can touch a person’s heart and bring about a transformation. That’s why Jesus said, “I have come to fulfill the scriptures”. When the love that you are is kindled, life itself becomes a scripture, a sacred book. Make your life the Gita, Quran or Bible. The key to achieving this is divine love! Become a devotee who is full of the Divine, lost in Divinity.


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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Friday, January 6, 2012

Baba Ki purva Chetaawani

Author - Manoj Kumar
Jab mai teenager thaa mujhe bhi bada shauk thaa ki mujhe bhi koi love kare... meri bhi koi girl friend ho... but aisa kabhi hota nahi thaa... main apne friends ko dekhta thaa unme se kaiyo ki girl friends hua karti thi... Fir mainne socha chalo kisi baba se milte hain, baba ke paas pahucha... pahuche hue Bengali Baba the- hast rekha vishshgya... bade lambe intazaar ke baad unhone jab mera haath dekhaa, sab kuchh bola lekin jo main sunane ko aaya thaa wo bataya nahi, fir mujhse raha nahi gaya... puchha baba aur kuchh to batao, koi ladki mujhe love karegi ya nahi? Baba ne kaha beta, tumhare life ka ye sabse bada dukhad pahlu hai... tu ladkiyo se dur hi rahna... isse jyada main tujhe is baare me kuchh aur nahi bata sakta.  Baba ki baat kadwi thi par bahot sachchi thi...Par main kabhi bhi khud ko ladkiyo ke charm se dur na rakh saka...( us daur ki films shaayad is liye jyada jimmewaar hain, most of them were love stories aur love stories mujhe bahot pasand hai...) haa ye alag baat hai ki kisi ladki ke najdeek bhi jyada nahi jaa saka... but ek ladki jo shaadi ke baad mere life me aayi, usne wo sabak diyaa jo baba ki baat hamesha mere mano mashtishk me chhod gayi hai.

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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Have you found God?

Author - Manoj Kumar
Ultimately it's God who helps us... and where is God, God is inside people like you...I see God in all good souls... after all we call Him Paramatma.  If you have a painful past in your life, you can only forget that if you really feel that was your past.  I have moved ahead... Now I laugh, I sing, I dance, I enjoy and I pray. God has given me enough strength and will power... I am always thankful to Almighty! Once again I repeat.. I rely on God and God is inside all good souls like yours and some of my friends'. 
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

A suggestion to my single friends from my own experiences

Author - Manoj Kumar
Suggestion to my single friends looking for life partners, don't marry a girl or a boy to whom you are a stranger... the only fault I did... you should take time and let each other know your likes, dislikes, tastes, preferences, dreams and many more such things... unless your frequency matches and you feel you are really compatible to each other, you should not get married... It will save two families, stop two lives or some times more than two lives to be spoiled.
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Simple philosphy of my life...

Author- Manoj Kumar
Everything that has started will come to its end one day or other... Birth was not under our control.. we came in this world without our consent.. we will leave this world without our consent... what is there in between that is only in our hands... so why to worry about the end of it... we have to value the present and try to make it as beautiful and as satisfying as possible... let's make it meaningful in our eyes... and leave the rest on God... Let's do good things in our lives in our own eyes so that there should be no regrets whatsoever any time in our lives... simple philosphy of my life...
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

Late Twenties - a difficult phase of life, agree?

Author - Unknown
26-29 is not a nice age for a man.... your ex-gfs are getting married , Your career has just started, Elders treat you as unproven theorems, College guys feel that you are too old to have in there group... You seem to enjoy both cartoon and news. You can no longer eat whatever you wish without putting on weight. You look like an ape if you don’t shave daily. You are not invited for weekend cricke.........t matches . Every Aunty you meet ask “Shaadi kab kar rahe ho beta!!” while uncle asks “Career ka kya socha hai beta…”.. When the reality is that you are just riding the wave and going with the flow… You have all the confidence in the world but little achievements to show, You already have the first hand experience of the life , You know that whatever you have been taught about the world in schools has been sheer waste of time. You can be denied a job even after passing the test and you could be given a job if you know someone placed high enough… Politics till now was a dirty word but now you feel it everywhere. You know now love is not that blind and that friendship has its terms and conditions. .You know there is nothing for granted and free lunches are not free… Your overconfidence is now making way for a humble conscience. . You now know it is not exactly what we thought it would be......
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे। 

India in 2050 : on course of becoming an economic superpower and alleviating poverty

Day before yesterday I was discussing with my friends how despite so much of progress we have failed to provide the living standard to maj...