Author- Manoj Kumar Abhimanyu
Good morning friends! Just read the article of Chetan Bhagat, my favourite columnist and writer with whom I am greatly inspired for he writes in a very simple language. Each one of his sentences are pretty clear to all of us. He keeps his flow with the readers and his writing is not just artificial, it touches our hearts and probably that is why he is darling of millions of readers across India, specially our youth. Today's Times of India in The Times of Ideas section I read this article in which he has advocated for the need of a healthy debate on religion in our country. Along similar lines I just want to express my views on this topic for you to have a look on and it should be taken as my attempt as a neutral writer with no intention to hurt the sentiments of any of my readers and others. Even then if something hurts to anyone of you, I sincerely apologize.
Ours is a country which is in making for last around 66 years after its independence, the people of which are divided under the different banners of religion. They are mostly confused with their identity when it comes for them to align with their religions with a view to have a visible difference in the way of leading their lives from the people of other religions and as prescribed by different preachers of those religions. In my view, religion is just a practice, but we very often link it with our births. When we go to schools, our parents fill the forms and in one of the columns in the form remains the religion where these parents put their own religion for their wards. And by that time in our early childhood we hardly know about ABC of religion. And the same religion column that is filled in that form becomes our identity for rest of our lives.
We often believe or better say we are made to believe that all what we could think of originates from that particular religion. In our country, our own names are also kept by our family members so as to retain the difference between the people of different religions. Commonly with the name of a person, we can easily identify him what religion he belongs to. To the contrary in many countries we have seen people having different religions but their names are so identical that you would hardly be able to distinguish by their names, what religion they belong to. Sorry I too used the word 'belong to' on few occasions. As far as my view goes, belonging and practicing are really two different things. We should practice religion and not belong to it. The moment we start belonging to a religion, there comes the problem. We start believing in something that actually does not happen. Let us try to understand this how, in the next paragraph.
Ultimately all religions have one goal to achieve that is to become a loving and compassionate human being to coexist peacefully with all other members of this universe, in simplest of terms if I could say. So I don't find reasons why there should be so many religions for us to choose from or we should be made to choose one from. All religions are perceptions. Some basic tenets have been prescribed in these religions that differentiates one from the other. Most of the followers without understanding those things get themselves aligned with one of those, mostly by birth as a lineage from our parents. And thus mostly all of us bear several illusions in our minds with respect to our own religions.
If we could differentiate between belonging and practicing a religion, I think there would be an end to the religious fanaticism, one of the biggest problems that our country is facing today. Let us collectively work towards it what ever religion we practice. Let us understand that we all are human beings having similar kind of features, looks, voices, emotions etc. We don't need to become a Saudia or Iran. Let us write our own scripts. Let us be known by our nation first and then by our religions. Some times I feel, if there is a good practice in Islam, I should practice that in my life, and similarly what is good there in Hinduism, I should practice that too. In fact we don't admit this publicly, but many of us use to do this very often knowingly or unknowingly. This is in fact Indianisation of all our religions.
Let us now talk about inter-religious marriages, today's youth are doing it and unlike past it is not so uncommon. There are some second generation people also from such families. In such families, two people from different religions have married. Then either of the two, have to change their religions, or sometimes they practice their own religions individually and still live together under one roof with love and peace. Further when they have their children, they have the choice to adhere to one of the two religions their parents were following. It is not exactly a choice again. It all depends on the family's choice. But later on when the children are grown ups, they can have their independent views on this. So then that becomes a practice for them.