Author- Manoj Kumar Abhimanyu
In today's The Times of India edition, I got two striking news headings - 1. Father rapes and kills teen for eloping with boy friend and 2. Techie held for raping 13-yr-old niece. Both the events are highly unfortunate and disturbing to us.
In the first incidence, her own father rapes her 4 months pregnant 17 year old daughter who got married to a boy of 19 from her own mohalla by eloping with... him some months back. They were residing in Mumbai far from their parent's home. Some how the father of the girl found out her whereabouts and reached there and tried to convince her to leave her husband and return with him to her parent's home. When she denied, he took her forcibly to a jungle and raped her there and then allowed one of his friends also to rape her after that. With the fear of the girl informing this to police, they murdered her.
In the second incidence, a Techie at Bangalore raped a girl continuously for last two years. The girl is now 13 years old. She is his wife's niece who was sent there by her parents for helping her aunt when her aunt was pregnant and taking care of her new born baby afterwards. Somehow one day his wife caught her husband red handed when he was exploiting her niece. Even after her warning to her husband, he continued to do so. He even locked his wife and did not allow her to move out. Only with the help of one of her neighbors she had the courage to report this incident to police and got his husband arrested for his heinous crime.
Well friends, don't these two events compel us to think who are these people who are doing all this? Aren't they from our own society? The father of the deceased teenager said he did it just to give her a lesson, who eloped with several boys in the past for sex. And after her rape when he feared that she will reveal that to police, he murdered her. And what kind of psyche that Techie was having who kept on molesting that small kid of 11 for next two years continuously? She was a small girl who came there to assist his wife when she was pregnant and had to deliver his baby. His wife feared that her daughter would have the same fate one day as her niece if she does not get him caught by the police. I leave this up to you to decide what is responsible for such crimes in our society which are being done by close relatives? Girls are not safe even in their father's hands.. where are we heading towards? Where is our Indian culture which we don't get tired boasting off?
In the first incidence, her own father rapes her 4 months pregnant 17 year old daughter who got married to a boy of 19 from her own mohalla by eloping with... him some months back. They were residing in Mumbai far from their parent's home. Some how the father of the girl found out her whereabouts and reached there and tried to convince her to leave her husband and return with him to her parent's home. When she denied, he took her forcibly to a jungle and raped her there and then allowed one of his friends also to rape her after that. With the fear of the girl informing this to police, they murdered her.
In the second incidence, a Techie at Bangalore raped a girl continuously for last two years. The girl is now 13 years old. She is his wife's niece who was sent there by her parents for helping her aunt when her aunt was pregnant and taking care of her new born baby afterwards. Somehow one day his wife caught her husband red handed when he was exploiting her niece. Even after her warning to her husband, he continued to do so. He even locked his wife and did not allow her to move out. Only with the help of one of her neighbors she had the courage to report this incident to police and got his husband arrested for his heinous crime.
Well friends, don't these two events compel us to think who are these people who are doing all this? Aren't they from our own society? The father of the deceased teenager said he did it just to give her a lesson, who eloped with several boys in the past for sex. And after her rape when he feared that she will reveal that to police, he murdered her. And what kind of psyche that Techie was having who kept on molesting that small kid of 11 for next two years continuously? She was a small girl who came there to assist his wife when she was pregnant and had to deliver his baby. His wife feared that her daughter would have the same fate one day as her niece if she does not get him caught by the police. I leave this up to you to decide what is responsible for such crimes in our society which are being done by close relatives? Girls are not safe even in their father's hands.. where are we heading towards? Where is our Indian culture which we don't get tired boasting off?
Then for us it is the easiest thing to blame law enforcing agencies or Police force for each and everything bad happening in our society. I am not discharging them from their duties. We all know their failures. At the same time we should understand their limitations as well. If the small kids in the four walls of our home are not safe, how police would come to know about all this? And my dear friends, you must be knowing, only out of 1000 cases may be less than one case is getting reported. Who will dare to report against her own father and that too if she is a small child who does not know much about this world yet? Change is required in the society itself. The mothers who remain silent even when they know that their boys and girls are being sexually abused by their fathers or other relatives, they have to come forward and let others know how they have become victims of their own. But it's not so easy. We all know how our own society thinks and looks at such girls and ladies who themselves are victims. So very few mothers dare to do this, and they just keep on tolerating all this by their husbands and other relatives. We all are responsible for this, aren't we?? Keep your hands on your hearts and ask this question to yourself.
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मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।
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