Respect ladies- they need to be understood in right perspective

Read a beautiful article today based on ladies' adaptability to the surroundings that is mostly male dominated. They program themselves to avoid unnecessary scuffle with others. They are soft targets of the prying eyes of men since the age of thirteen. Men from all age groups stare at them and try to make them realize that they are a commodity and not a fellow being like them. It hurts me inside too. Being a part of the same society I should also feel ashamed. Knowingly or unknowingly I may also have hurt many of my female acquaintances, friends and colleagues and sometimes even my mother and sister. They really adapt themselves to the difficult situations from their tender age as they face such abuses from the very early age of their growth. They retort only when the water crosses the level of their heads. Mostly they try to ignore verbal unwarranted and uninvited quotes or comments by known and unknown people. The writer of the article is a European lady. She mentions about the physical abuses too that I don't want to mention but that is something most of the ladies come across in their lives frequently even here in India but most of us keep those secret. She mentions that the girls and ladies tend to keep it with themselves and generally don't convey those with their mums or dad and after marriage to their husbands.

For a sensible man a deep understanding of a woman's psyche is necessary. They need to be cared, nurtured and given respect if she is related to you in any form. It hurts when someone makes a lousy comment about girls and ladies when I am around such persons but I feel helpless most of the time, probably that is an accepted norm in our boys' circle. I really feel pity for those girls too who themselves behave in such a manner that has changed the perception of men towards women as easy targets for their lusty desires. Well this is what women have to face in almost all parts of the world more or less equally. Can we change this? Yes we can if we change ourselves, applicable to both men and women, girls and boys!

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

To bring back your innocence play with small kids more often

While bringing daily morning breakfast items, I saw two little kids around 5 to 7 yrs of age, one younger and other older probably own brothers playing badminton. It was around 7.30 AM. When I was going the younger baby told to his elder brother,"Ruk jaa Uncle ko jaane de". I listened to his soft voice and smile erupted automatically on my face. When I was coming back, the younger one said, "Ye uncle Ande bechte hain.. yeh wohi uncle hain.." The elder said, "no ye woh uncle nahi hain.." Main rook gaya toh kahne lage, "hamare sath kheloge?" I said, "why not!". The younger kid said about the other, "Ise khelna nahi aata". I watched them playing and I found that the younger kid was able to serve but the elder was faltering again and again. Then I tried to teach the elder kid how to serve then the younger kid requested me to play with him. My shots were going over his head many times then with such an innocence he said " Bhaiya meri height chhoti hai naa, is liye cork mere sar ke upar se chali jaa rahi hai. Main bada ho jaaunga toh aapko hara dunga." The elder kid was counting the points and he was shouting that I was winning. I said no, your brother is winning since I am sending the cork above his height. They were very happy to play with me and when I said them I was to leave they requested me to come again and play with them. Really children are so lovable and innocent. Loved those little kids who started telling me uncle first and then when I started playing with them changed the tag from uncle to bhaiyaa.. hahaha.. Bachcho ki baat hi niraali hai.. loved this instance.

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

Look for internal beauty in your partner

Till 15 to 25 I thought the best companion I could ever dream of in my life would be a very pretty looking, soft and silky girl. By the time I reached in my thirties my entire idea of a companion got changed. I came in touch with many such girls on different platforms and in different cities of India and found that external beauty does not mean everything. It's the compatibility that matters more. I found sustaining a relationship means both the girl and the boy should like each other's company and have willingness to be together for a longer period of time. Howsoever good looking a girl or a boy be, if they are not in sync at the mental level, the relationship will always be at the risk of frigidity. Now I feel mental compatibility is far more important than physical one. Unfortunately I find myself to be very different in thoughts with many of my female friends. Today I was watching a documentary on one of the news channels about the life of our favourite singer Adnan Sami. I got to know he was married probably four times and three times his marriage failed. It's nothing but lack of compatibility. How painful is this to part ways with someone and if you have to do it thrice you can imagine how difficult it would be for the person like him to cope with that. Question mark still persists..

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

Bhagat Singh - a real hero and perfect role model for Indian youth

Just a few days ago, there was a debate going on a news channel on the life of Bhagat Singh ji, our great freedom fighter, a role model as a revolutionary socialist and a man behind building a consciousness among youth of that era to fight against the atrocities and misrule by then British empire. He laid down his life for the nation and to create a revolutionary movement among youths to oust the foreign rule. Millions of people got united on his call when he was hanged. I was astonished to know that he lived only for twenty three years and his ideas, his thoughts, his vision through his writings have been inscribed in several books and journals. His views are more relevant today at the time when the today's youth needs a guidance and he is totally engrossed in one sided monotonous life that is full of materialism. Well he would have started writing at the age of 15 as the debate progressed I learnt something unheard of I mean there is no such parallel example to quote in modern history. The level of maturity and conviction he brings in his writings and messages to this world and specially to the youth is unparalleled and the experts said, people like Bhagat Singh cannot be created, they are special and very rare gifts of God. Well friends, Bhagat Singh's writing and his messages came to be known to the world after his death. His views and contributions through his writings brought a bigger change in the thoughts of youth of that time. Friends death is not the end. What you are doing today will bear fruits tomorrow probably when you are not here but your deeds will be counted whether good or bad. Keep on doing good things without thinking the results thereof. Bhagat Singh ji is a perfect role model and inspiration to all of us.

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

Rate cuts by RBI, although too late but a corrective measure towards bringing economy back on track

Well friends it's many weeks now since I wrote last on the state of Indian economy. With the change of guard at the top position of our federal bank RBI, the beginning of rate cuts really brought cheers and relief to many. However still a long way to go but at least we are towards correcting the probably unintentional wrong-doings of the previous regulator. The vicious cycle in which our economy has been reeling for almost last four to five years does not seem to be over in near future since many companies are struggling to survive or service the piles of debts they have created in the hope they will be running under full utilization of their capacity. Well in the current recessive scenario, the improvement in world economy seems to be slower than actually predicted so these corporate houses have to wait. Till that time even banks will also be performing badly. Well rate cuts are late and although they will contribute in reversing the process, it will take too long since the health of these business houses is too precarious. One thing that I will suggest to improve the health of our industrial sectors is those who are fortunately having excess cash in their reserves should bail out those who are distressed and dying because of excess debts that they are not able to service. This is for your own nation. Do bail out if you can. While government and the new RBI governor are doing their best, let the profitable business houses come forward and bail these beleaguered but otherwise promising companies out.

Thanks friends do keep reading..

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

Conspicuous silence of Mr. Amir Khan on Tripple Talaq

It's so strange our popular cine- actor, so called social activist, reformer, anchor of shows like Satyamev Jayate is dead silent on the issue of 'tripple talaaq' that haunts the Indian muslim women severely and has rendered millions of such women's lives miserable. Muslim women still do not have right place in the society and are victims of frequent physical abuse and domestic violence in the male dominated society. They are forced to go for multiple deliveries year after year without their consent and that doesn't only weakens their health but also put their lives on risk. Can we ask such actors who are otherwise so vocal on various social issues why they hide in their dens when it comes to voice for reforms related to Muslims? Doesn't it show their double-standards? They can preach for others but can't practice when it comes to their own.. Boycott such double faced celebrities.. expose them and their deeds..

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।

Tiyasa Basu, a singing sensation - another Shreya Ghoshal in making

Tiyasa Basu- many of you might have seen her singing in Voice kids. She has an amazingly accomplished voice and that reflects every time she sings. She looks like a doll and has an aura that is rarely found although she is very silent and down to earth. When I watched repeat telecast of last week's episode I could know that she is an adopted child of Basu family. I guessed a sad past she must have carried since you can feel that through her eyes. She was crying and let that emotion come out while coach Vishal asked her the reason why she remained so silent. God bless her reach at the pinnacle of success since she is the flag bearer of the true classical and semi-classical singing and holds that rare talent that the Hindi music industry longs for. I wish every childless couple adopt such girls and give her an identity that she deserves. I don't know how such a cute child remained without parents for so long. I really bless her from the core of my heart and would like to see her shine in the Hindi music world in years to come.

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।