Look for internal beauty in your partner

Till 15 to 25 I thought the best companion I could ever dream of in my life would be a very pretty looking, soft and silky girl. By the time I reached in my thirties my entire idea of a companion got changed. I came in touch with many such girls on different platforms and in different cities of India and found that external beauty does not mean everything. It's the compatibility that matters more. I found sustaining a relationship means both the girl and the boy should like each other's company and have willingness to be together for a longer period of time. Howsoever good looking a girl or a boy be, if they are not in sync at the mental level, the relationship will always be at the risk of frigidity. Now I feel mental compatibility is far more important than physical one. Unfortunately I find myself to be very different in thoughts with many of my female friends. Today I was watching a documentary on one of the news channels about the life of our favourite singer Adnan Sami. I got to know he was married probably four times and three times his marriage failed. It's nothing but lack of compatibility. How painful is this to part ways with someone and if you have to do it thrice you can imagine how difficult it would be for the person like him to cope with that. Question mark still persists..

========================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।