Being good or being bad is often relative

Good and bad are relative terms. What's good or what's bad that is measured on different scales and tested on several parameters. Different customs or different traditions or different practices under different societies may have different views on what's good or similarly on what's bad. Just for an example, consuming alcohol or consuming non-vegetarian food may be good to some, but also may be bad for others. Even law makers in different states have different opinions, for some betting or gambling or consuming drugs is not a crime, but for some it's a severe crime.

Now let's talk about the human perception towards a person. The same person for some,people may be good and for others may not be. Further two good people may not prove to be good friends, while we can also see that two seemingly people of different perceptions, means one good and the other bad may be good friends. A bad person may appreciate a good person for obvious reasons and also that some qualities that he himself lacks he finds in the other. Similarly a good person would not have the ego issues with the bad person and the former likes the later due to later's kind nature and good gesture towards him and the value or recognition that he receives from the later.

The gist of all the debate is that a person himself is good and bad both as all good and evil resides inside us. We may behave or react differently under different situations and under different company or different groups. For an example, we may be very disciplined i.e. good before our parents as per their expectations and bad to our hostel warden. Further company of bad people does not always mean that the person himself too is bad. Similarly company of good people for a bad person does not guarantee that he is good. Therefore a person should not be judged on one parameter or two. We should take time to know him completely before we make our opinion or give our judgement on him. But often we remain in so much of hurry that on first meet or on first look, we give our judgement on someone. That's our real weakness that we should free ourselves of. Often such judgement lead us take wrong decisions.

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