Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Love - Real or just a fashion statement


Love is a feeling.. sometimes we think we are in love, but actually that may just be an infatuation for someone or may be a bad judgement which later on you might find that the one you should be with is not that person. Today having a boy friend or a girl friend is more of a fashion statement than a true relation of hearts. Being in such a relation will always keep that person discontented and insecure. As a result the person sub-consciously has the desire to have real love through out the journey of his or her life till he or she doesn't get it. Even if someone is in so called relationship, the door is not that tightly shut that it can not be pushed to open. But it's also true that some times if the bond of love is really strong, the door will never open. But then such a relationship is not just a fashion statement but made of true feelings and pure devotion for each other. 

Today morning, when I was coming to office, in the way I was thinking, people say marriage is a bond for ever and to come out of this is a very difficult proposition even after both of you are not made for each other. But what I feel is when both of them are not in love at all and marriage certainly should be a nest knitted around a web of love, how can you put them to live together for life long. Certainly if love is missing in a relation, there is no point living together and one of the partners can not force the other to be with him or her. Even if it is carried, It would be like a body without a soul or a cart without the wheels..

======================================================================== मित्रों यदि मेरा यह पोस्ट आपके दिल को जरा भी छू कर गुजरा हो तो मुझे विश्वास है कि आप मेरे इस प्रयास को लाइक दे कर मुझे और भी अच्छा लिखने की प्रेरणा, स्नेह और आशीर्वाद देंगे। आप अगर मुझे मेरे फेसबुक प्रोफाइल पर फॉलो करते हैं तो आपको मेरे शेयर किये सारे पोस्ट्स आपके नोटिफिकेशन्स में मिलते रहेंगे।


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